Who can find a virtuous woman?
for her price is far above rubies.
The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her,
so that he shall have no need of spoil.
She will do him good and not evil
all the days of her life.
Does my husband know I have his best interests at heart, and
genuine goodwill toward him?
Other than sweet surprises, does he know I will never hide anything from him? Do I ever connive or make plans without his knowledge, blessing, or input?
Strength and honour are her clothing;
and she shall rejoice in time to come.
She openeth her mouth with wisdom;
and in her tongue is the law of kindness.
Do I faithfully display respect for him,
honoring him, deferring to his leadership
especially in front of our children?
Do our children know they are safe because I love their Daddy passionately, loyally,
Do they see it?
Is it an obvious part of their everyday lives?
She looketh well to the ways of her household,
and eateth not the bread of idleness.
Her children arise up, and call her blessed;
her husband also, and he praiseth her.
Can my husband trust me to…
take good care of our children,
manage our home well, and
handle money and financial decisions with wisdom?
Is there any question in my home who is the head?
Is pure, good, Biblical Truth clearly and lovingly modeled…
But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, and easy to be intreated, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy.
And the fruit of righteousness is sown in peace of them that make peace.
Would my husband say that I am caring, gentle, forgiving and merciful?
Does his heart rest because he knows I am faithful? I am his. He is mine.
Is he confident that I have a pure heart, so he is able to fully trust me with his heart?